Success is defined as “the achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted.”

However, because personal success is, well, “personal,” your particular definition of it may very well be what’s keeping you from enjoying it now. In this post, we’ll get clear on exactly how that works and how to fix it.

In other words:

Your definition of success may be forking your banana 🍌 Here’s how to fix that.

When did you last check with yourself, “What’s my version of success?” Are you still trying to get the things you wanted 5 years ago? 10 years ago? 20? You don’t even have a phone that old. Isn’t it time you checked?

I have a confession to make: I’m not a millionaire.

My business doesn’t make multiple six figures. To be honest, my business has never made $100K.  It’s something I’d really love.

And yet today? I woke up feeling hella wealthy.

And successful AF, too; why? Because I asked myself this very question. What’s my current, today-Gaby, definition of success?

And I realized. I’m already living it. It’s wild!

• • 🔥I’m rich in time: I just went sunbathing on a Tuesday – on a whim.
  • 🔥I’m rich in energy: I’m lifting weights and killing X-mountain climbers.
  • 🔥I’m rich in vitality: 90% of my body is healthy.
  • 🔥I’m rich in friends: really good, soulful, ones that fill my phone with memes.
  • 🔥I’m rich in love. I may also be kinda rich in sex?

Yes, I’m manifesting a lot more money – but there’s time, isn’t there?

I’m rich in life and experiences. I’ve traveled a lot! I saw Kathrin Zenkina (@manifestationbabe on Instagram) be surprised by Tinto de Verano and Spanish Tortilla, and I had to laugh.

That’s adorable! 

I’ve probably had one million slices of Tortilla de Patatas, have been to Spain more than seven times (?), and I’m about to buy a property there. Plus, I make a killer Tinto de Verano that brings all the boys to the yard.

My life is rich, y’all. And I’m willing to bet money: So. Is. Yours.

My point? You may be running wild chasing a vision of success that no longer aligns with who you are. 

Who you are today. Not who you were before cargo pants came back.

You probably still compare yourself to:

• • 👀Influencers
  • 👀High-profile manifestation babez
  • 👀Other businesses
  • 👀Women who somehow have 3 kids and a 6-pack
  • 👀That *hot* couple with a drone in the Maldives

And they’re all great, highly deserving people. And I’m here to tell you: I’ve worked with them ALL, and the truth is:

• • 🤷Most influencers have 1million followers but can’t afford rent 
  • 🤷🏼High-profile business owners are burning out from turning their lives into content
  • 🤷🏾The business may be great, but the owners still have bad days 
  • 🤷🏿Those women with abs? Are just doing what they like (and maybe that’s just not your vibe)
  • 🤷All hot couples have high and low seasons

You’re doing exceptionally well. You have zero to figure out. You’ve got all the answers you need inside.

So go ahead and take that journal out and ask yourself: If I was coming down to earth today – what would be the “present-me” definition of success?

• • 💚What would they see (maybe it’s a mountain instead of a Lamborghini)
  • 💚What would they hear (perhaps a cat inside a Pink Lamborghini💅)
  • 💚What is their feeling of choice? (Mine is officially relaxation)
  • 💚How do they enjoy using their time? 

You may discover you’re more prosperous, healthier, and happier than you thought. 

Your inner being is guiding you through the path of least resistance every step of the way. If you’re too distracted or “blocked off” to take the slide🛝? All good, zero worries; you can take the 4X4 scenery route. You will absolutely still make it to your desired destination.

You have a subconscious mind (a supercomputer) taking in 2.3 million bits per second. Trust that it has already found the solution for you. 

You’re doing fine. So much better than you think you are. 

Really, 

I know because I coach those other guys 😝

See you soon, Coach Gaby.

PS: If you’re new to Journaling, the Quantum Leap Journaling course is 30%+ OFF! I used it to manifest my house, soooo you want that.

PPS: I’m low-key taking the summer off, there’s a marketer making changes to this house for us, and the next you’ll hear from me, I’ll probably be packing my bags for Tomorrowland!